Grandchildren
guests as Michael and Marian wed 51 years after they met.
ULSTER FRIENDS ENJOY SPECIAL WEDDING IN AUSTRALIA. (By Victor Gordon)
It was a rather unique wedding - seven of their
nine grandchildren were there, it was 10,000 miles from home, and they
finally tied the knot 51 years after they met. Former Portadown College
sweethearts Michael Spathaky and Marian Chambers (nee Mitchell) were
married on board a river cruiser in Sydney, Australia, with 55 family
and friends enjoying the day, including several from their Portadown
roots, and others from various parts of Ulster.
The romantic event took place on board the 'Penrith Platypus', with a
local clergyman performing the ceremony, and the guests enjoying a
superb spread for a reception - and basking in 23 degrees of warm
sunshine in the Australian winter. It marked the climax of a special
romance between two lonely people whose first spouses had died -
Marian's husband Sammy Chambers, with whom she had emigrated to
Australia, and Michael's wife Diana (nee Jones) - in the late 1990s,
both from brain tumours. In the meantime, they met up again through
'Friends Reunited' after Marian surfed the website - something which
simply didn't exist when they became teenage sweethearts in Portadown
College in the 1950s.
They went their separate ways in 1956 when Michael's England-born
parents Ron and Kath moved back to England - his dad was a French
teacher in the College - and they finally lost touch. Those days were
recalled as they cruised down the River Nepean in Sydney on Saturday,
and there to speed them into wedded bliss were Portadown-born friends
like Margaret Page, Jim and Jean Patterson and Jean's mum Harriet Ashe,
plus other Ulster people like Derek and Pat Crawford (originally
Bangor), Ruddy Becket (Lurgan), Tommy and Ann Rice (Ballymoney) and Mary
Davidson (Stormont). And there was another special guest, thanks to the
Portadown Times - Rebecca Foley (nee Harrison) originally from Church
Street in the town.
Rebecca's family send her the Portadown Times every week, and when she
read about the wedding date, venue and time, she turned up to wish the
Spathakys all the best. Said Marian, "We insisted that she join the
party, and - like the rest of us - she had a ball. Thanks to the Times,
we've made another contact from back home and we'll be keeping in
touch."
Marian's son Gary gave her away, and also present were her daughters
Dawn and Gillian and families. Michael's son John was bestman, although
his daughter Jane from England couldn't make it, she and her family had
been to Australia to visit him earlier in the year. "It was a wonderful
day for us, the family and friends," Marian told the Times from
Australia. "We'll never forget it." The new Mr and Mrs Spathaky will be
spending six months alternatively in Australia and England, and they'll
be in Portadown in September for a party with old friends. And there
will be a blessing in England in October, with the guests of honour
being Michael's mum and dad who are married for almost 70 years and who
were unable to travel to Oz for the special wedding. "It's wonderful the
way life turns full circle," said Marian. "We both remember Portadown
College days vividly - and here we are together again after 50 years."
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